You're Enough To Bloom, Bloom Yourself | Self-Esteem
A flower doesn’t think of competing to the flower next to it. It just blooms.
I'd like to remind you this quote ‘A flower doesn’t think of competing to the flower next to it. It just blooms.’
The season of flowers has come, and I’ve painted the rose moon with the inspiration of the season. Apparently, it combined the topic with the quote of today.
Well, first, we should think of what level my ‘self-esteem’ is. In fact, self-esteem goes up and down, and sometimes goes down and then goes up. The reason seems to be that self-esteem is changed by others and environmental factors.
We all aged, and we’ve got and go through many good and bad experiences, also we live with a variety of people. We are in relationships with large and small groups, self-esteem is affected through feedback and re-actions from those around us.
It is not determined by thoughts or reaction of others, it doesn’t need to be influenced by social status or role and the closest relationship, but it starts with the way how I think of myself and believing in my abilities, and from the foundation I want it to be strong.
As the quote of today, I think of each flower as a flower with its own name, color, and fragrance. Just like some flowers sometimes bloom late, some flowers may have no scent, and some flowers will have some fruit, if you focus on blooming flowers by understanding the flower the way it is, and looking into it accurately, it can’t be compared to other flowers.
No need to compare, we just let it blossom and put more effort into loving as it is.
When the flower called jelly is the most beautiful, it is not the color, shape, or appearance of the flower, but acknowledges the value of the flower no matter where it blooms. It's important to keep up. If that happens, many other flowers will naturally increase the value of the jelly flower and respect it.
A healthy self-esteem allows us to express the needs and opinions more firmly, to have a confidence when making decisions, and to have a more stable and honest relationship. and it’s less likely stay in unhealthy relationship.
In fact, self-esteem affects every aspect of our lives, and your flower is sure to be called beautifully, enough to bloom, and worthy enough to be there.
As we go through life, obviously and inevitably, our self-esteem can go up or down and we might not be sure ourselves sometimes but nevertheless, I want you to remember that you are still one of the flowers in this world. And I hope to live a healthy life with people who recognize and cherish the only precious value.
I wish you bloom your flower this week with all the love and affection.
Have a Jellyful day!